Neighbor asks to park in homeowner's driveway during snow storm and then leaves it there for a month, wants to park there indefinitely

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    A car parked in a driveway
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    AITAH for saying no to neighbor’s car in my driveway indefinitely?

    My neighbor has asked if his son's girlfriend could park her car in my driveway before snow storms. I have always said yes, and have no problem with that circumstance, though this last time she did not ask to stay even after the snow melted, and ended up being there for a full month. I didn't want to make things awkward so I didn't bring it up.
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    I have a pretty decent size driveway and only one car but it is somewhat tight side-by-side, and my daughter is in a car seat, so I need a bit of room to get her out. For reference my neighbor already has three cars in their driveway.
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    When the snow completely melted and she didn't park there for a couple of days, I figured all was good, so I didn't keep parking at the side of my driveway to allow room for her. Today my neighbor approached me and asked if it would be OK if she continued to park there, and I said I didn't really want her there indefinitely, but said of course she is welcome in case of snow. He then told me her bumper got hit parked on the side of the road. There is plenty of street parking and it's a wide enoug
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    I was really hoping I would not have to deal with this confrontation and now I feel guilty and awkward. My neighbor is always helping with his snow and leafblower, and I pay him a reasonable rate to mow my lawn. in the spring/summer. I want to maintain a friendly relationship. But I don't want to have to worry about someone's car in my driveway, potentially dinging their door or vice versa, and with this being my first single family home (moved in '23), appreciate the luxury of parking how I wan
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    I also find it kind of weird that this girl, who is 19, hasn't had the courage to talk to me directly. ETA I never actually see her - she works a late shift and I am out of the house 8a to 6p. I say hello to my neighbors regularly. Hoping I am NTA, and if anyone has any suggestions to maintain the peace please let me know.
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    A white car parked in a driveway
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    paganliam NTA. Had a neighbor like that. The person who lived in the house before me would let him park extra cars in the drive, and he wanted to continue doing so. Trust me, being nice on occasion just leads to them thinking they are entitled to it.
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    Weekly_Village3628 Tell them you talked to your home owners insurance and they won't allow you without risking your policy so you can't let them. I mean how can they fault you for that and something they can't verify for privacy issues and everyone's insurance is different. You could even check with your homeowners insurance if you want. They would likely have to pay if something happens on your property and would not want that liability.
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    Ratchet_gurl24 It's understandable wanting to keep a good relationship with your neighbour, however that shouldn't be contingent on you letting them use your driveway on a regular/permanent basis. What would happen if their car was damaged while parked on your property? Would they expect you to reimburse them? You're not responsible for accommodating anyone else's vehicles, especially if it affects your own parking.
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    spaceylaceygirl "i need my driveway. During a snow storm i will put up with the inconvenience but other than that no."
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    Slight_Citron_7064 It sounds like you already had the conversation and set the boundary with him: she can only park there in cases of snow, not on the regular. And it sounds like he took it ok too. Your mistake was not enforcing the boundary in the first place. If she parks there again outside of your agreement, put a note on her car to remind her that she's only allowed to park there before snow storms.
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